HUSBAND, ORGASM FOR YOUR WIFE IS NOT OPTIONAL
Orgasm is very important in marriage. It is a woman's equivalent of the man's ejaculation. A woman that does not experience orgasm during sex with her husband is actually being made to suffer. It's like a man having sex with his wife without being allowed to ejaculate. Every woman has her own unique style and touch that makes her have an orgasm.
For some it is the touching of their breasts, for another, it is the sucking of her clitoris, for some it is the fingering of their g-spot, while some do have an orgasm during intercourse. Some also have some uncommon positioning and movement of the body that makes them have an orgasm. Some could just be the sex position or duration of the thrusting. It is important for the man to know his wife and ensure he does regularly that which makes the wife have an orgasm. If possible, the husband should ensure the wife climax first before he climaxes.
If not, the wife should be made to climax immediately after the man's climax. There is no formula here, the couples should determine what is best for them. The principle is that couples must be selfless and seek the pleasure and pleasing of the other.
There is no spirituality in not making your wife to have an orgasm. The fruit of the Holy Spirit (patience, long-suffering, selflessness) must also be expressed on the marital bed. True love is the sacrifice to please and satisfy another. Let that guide your sexual intimacy. It is wickedness if as a man you just care about your own ejaculation and don't care about the woman's orgasm. It is wickedness, not spirituality.
Truly godly and spiritual man satisfies his wife in intimacy. The Bible says, "Behold, thou art fair, my beloved, yea, pleasant:
also our bed is green. (Song of Solomon 1:16 KJV) Is your bed green? It has to be fresh all the time to remain green.
Orgasm is very important in marriage. It is a woman's equivalent of the man's ejaculation. A woman that does not experience orgasm during sex with her husband is actually being made to suffer. It's like a man having sex with his wife without being allowed to ejaculate. Every woman has her own unique style and touch that makes her have an orgasm.
For some it is the touching of their breasts, for another, it is the sucking of her clitoris, for some it is the fingering of their g-spot, while some do have an orgasm during intercourse. Some also have some uncommon positioning and movement of the body that makes them have an orgasm. Some could just be the sex position or duration of the thrusting. It is important for the man to know his wife and ensure he does regularly that which makes the wife have an orgasm. If possible, the husband should ensure the wife climax first before he climaxes.
If not, the wife should be made to climax immediately after the man's climax. There is no formula here, the couples should determine what is best for them. The principle is that couples must be selfless and seek the pleasure and pleasing of the other.
There is no spirituality in not making your wife to have an orgasm. The fruit of the Holy Spirit (patience, long-suffering, selflessness) must also be expressed on the marital bed. True love is the sacrifice to please and satisfy another. Let that guide your sexual intimacy. It is wickedness if as a man you just care about your own ejaculation and don't care about the woman's orgasm. It is wickedness, not spirituality.
Truly godly and spiritual man satisfies his wife in intimacy. The Bible says, "Behold, thou art fair, my beloved, yea, pleasant:
also our bed is green. (Song of Solomon 1:16 KJV) Is your bed green? It has to be fresh all the time to remain green.
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