Sextalk

Sex Pleasure zone. Targeting the pleasure zones in your spouse and knowing what to do and how long to do what you are doing is the major key to sexual enjoyment and fulfillment. Sexual enjoyment cannot be achieved if fulfillment is not achieved. Sexual fulfillment is the process of making your partner to  reach the point of maximum pleasure. It is only at the point that your spouse has reached maximum pleasure that you can say you actually enjoyed sex. Several factors can lead to fulfillment and enjoyment.  Some of these are : in a situation that your climaxes seem like a lot of work for not much payoff, the reasons could be physical or psychological, could be technique, or could be you just need a little help from some "friends." Don’t give up — help is on the way. “The ability to achieve a healthy, strong, satisfying orgasm is a gift. When we have low libido, inability to orgasm, or our quality of orgasm is not as strong as it used to be, can Some pleasure hidden pleasu...

QUICK EJACULATION Quick ejaculation is a major problem among couples. It is not just the problem of the husband alone but of both couples. The problem is domiciled in the man but directly and indirectly affects the wife.  Several researchers have opined that over 90% of men experience quick ejaculation ranging from mild to severe. Quick ejaculation can be described as the ejaculation that happens in the man before the woman maximally reaches orgasm. Quick ejaculation is the ejaculation that something happens as soon  as the man penetrates the vagina or even before penetration is done. Some men just cannot penetrate a wet vagina environment without ejaculation. This situation can very embarrassing and frustrating. The evil about quick ejaculation is that one experience of it creates and anxious environment against the next sexual experience. The anxiety created is a road block against the next sexual experience. The causes of quick ejaculation may be disease and sickness, s...

Quick ORGASM The missionary style may not be able to create a perfect position to achieve quick orgasm.  The missionary style may begin the great sex experience bit a little tilt in the process can do the magic of quick orgasm. The missionary style can come in different spins. Another spin on Missionary, the Coital Alignment Technique (C.A.T.), aka the Frog or the Perfect Position, looks to sacrifice elevation and power for proper positioning. Start in regular Missionary, and then flatten your torso as much possible, while your partner should arch her legs and put her legs on your butt. What you're doing here is targeting the clitoris for more direct rubbing and friction. The pressure you put on her clitoris could help her get to orgasm quicker. You should also be staying nice and deep within her in this position, too, to ensure maximum. In other words, it's more for her pleasure than yours. This requires a lot of energy patience and care. It requires energy because the posi...

Hot sex Styles  for deep penetrative sex. For most people great sex is all about deep penetration into the vagina and a rigorous in and out thrusts. The key sex positions that will be able to help you achieve this is the most famous and classic of all sex positions – The missionary style or position. Some of the benefits and features includes :The eye contact, the mild male dominance and the angle of penetration make this a popular one, and odds are, the first time you had sex was in a Missionary position. A very comfortable position that allows for easy thrusting, and an easy pull-out if you’re a man, there’s plenty of benefits to it and it’ll work its way into basically any sexual encounter you find yourself in, at some point. The missionary styles makes it very easy for the Penis to have a deep contact with the clitoris when thrusting in and out. Remember that the clitoris is the key sex organ that enables the wife to reach orgasm easily.  The clitoris is also very sensit...

ORGASM: HELP HER TO GET THERE EASILY The issue of female orgasm is quite a concern among A lot of folks.  The women who do not reach orgasm do not tend to be happy with themselves and their spouse. They became psychological shifted from the normal.  They tend to have some kind of abnormal behaviors. On the other hand, the husband also comes under pressure and shame because he has not been able to perform his conjugal duty satisfactorily. This makes him to look down on Himself as a “ misnormal”. Some couples do not know how to handle this peculiar challenge and how to get a solution.  I should say that the issue does not need talking down your husband or the husband coming under unnecessary pressure. With just sex education this issue will be solved without taking any chemical or traditionally made drugs. What this drugs do most of the time is to stimulate certain parts of the body. Now, this on its own has great side effects that will likely lead to some terminal ailm...

CAN GOOD/QUALITY SEX BE REGARDED AS CRITERIA FOR LOVE? My little reply, Love is not sex. You can't classify sex as love. But ladies see sex as love because of the affection therein. Men don't see anything like good or quality in sex because most men see sex as fun. Sex to a large extent keep relationship, but can't guarantee it. But then if you say that sex is not love, But why some call sex making love? It means there is love in that sex, as oil is to the car so is sex is to the marriage, Now What do you think. The major truth about why women regard sex as love is because some men do not just know the right chord to hit during sexual intercourse or love making. When a man knows what to do and does it well, the act is addressed as love making. But when another man misbehave in the process of sexual intercourse it is called several. Most of the time, the man who does sex and not love making is just on a course to ejaculate. He is not concerned if his wife is enjoyi...

Sex Styles Variety they say is the spice of life. This saying does not exclude the sexual experience of couples. Sex is a natural instinct but the benefits and enjoyment of sex cannot be fully maximized if the couple depends on instincts alone. The couple that truly wants to enjoy sex must continuously make efforts to learn ND to discover new styles, techniques, positions and location for a sound sexual experience. Some people believe that it is religiously out of place to go beyond the missionary style (the man on top of the woman) in sexual intercourse. This believe is erroneous and misleading. The couple should do what fits them per time. They should choose what benefits them and what they both enjoy and agree. The key thing in a sound sexual intercourse is not about the force of the man pouncing in and out of the woman. He must be able to achieve maximum stimulation of different parts, angles and depth of the vagina. It is therefore important for the couple to explore by them...

Simple methods for delaying ejaculation The man and his wife will maximally enjoy and benefit for the sexual experience if ejaculation is delayed till its appropriate time and moment. Delaying ejaculation is one of the keys that helps the wife to reach orgasm which is the peak of sexual fulfillment for the woman. How do you delay ejaculation. 1. The first lesson to learn is that a lot of men experience premature ejaculation. The moment Penis is inserted into a wet vagina, the possibility of ejaculating is very high. The only way this can be checked is be delaying the in and out thrusts. 2. Even before penetrative sex, ejaculation can be delayed by intermediate stops in caressing the Penis if the semen is about to be released. 3. The use of doubled condom can also delay ejaculating before the actual desired time. This system can restrict easy from of semen by reducing sensitivity. The problem with this is that most couple do not maximally enjoy sex with the use of condoms. This...

Giving your man maximum pleasure. Every man does not enjoy maximum pleasure during sexual intercourse. This is a fact that cannot be disputed with.  But the truth remains that every man should and can enjoy maximum pleasure during sexual intercourse. Maximum pleasure is not achieved by maximum performance but by smart and tactical performance. The greatest thief of the man’s maximum pleasure during sexual intercourse is discouragement and a sense of non fulfillment. The above listed causes are mostly products of premature ejaculating of a sperm during sexual intercourse. For some men, it’s so bad that as soon as their genitals become stimulated a little they begin to ejaculate. For some other men, their ejaculation begins as soon as the penetrate the vagina whether it is wet or not. Premature ejaculation has become man’s greatest sexual problem. It is so challenging that some men shy away from sexual intercourse because they get so embarrassed each time they ejaculate before the...

From our previous lessons, every person who truly intends to enjoy sex maximally should forget about rush. Rushing into penetrative sex by the husband will drive him into premature ejaculating. Premature ejaculating steals the joy of love making. The husband should make ensure that he does not slip his finger into the wife’s clitoris when she is not wet. A total body kissing, caressing and deep romance is what will make your wife’s body to be wet and ready for higher levels of actions. One of the major bit most ignored instrument for romance is the tongue. When we are talking about using the tongue, what will easily come to your mind is oral sex. Oral sex is not widely accepted by A lot of people based on religious beliefs and divide. Because of this, oral sex should be engaged by the consent of husband and the wife. Oral sex therefore is the process of using the tongue to stimulate the genitals and other sexual you sensitive organs and zones. Before a couple engages in oral sex, ...

Yesterday we took time to explain the progression of the total body kissing. We were careful to mention that your hand should not slip into the clitoris while kissing is ongoing.  This way,  it will keep your wife asking for more until when it is time to move into more sensitive zones. Just like in teaching a child,  you are meant to move from the known to the unknown and from simple to complex. At this point it will be good and right to move the kissing to the clitoris area. The clitoris is a very sensitive part of the woman’s body.  With the clitoris being properly worked on,  the woman can reach orgasm without actually penetrative sex.  In fact,  it is idle to get your wife to reach the first stage of orgasm even before you penetrate. As you begin kissing the clitoris, remember that you should begin in a very soft and tender manner. Remember that this organ is a very tender organ. The way and manner this organ is being manipulated can tell whether...

Sexual intercourse is a natural process that can be very rewarding when the couple know exactly what to do and how to respond to their spouse per time. The process can also be frustrating if the ball is not played appropriately. While some people enjoy sex,  some other couples see it as a necessary evil done just to satisfy the other person. Instinct alone will not get the job done. The following suggestions can help a great deal 1 . understand the erotic zones of your spouses’ body and how they can respond to different degrees of touch. Touching,  and caressing certain zones of the body can be more pleasurable than the actual penetrative sex. The husband must learn how to hold and control himself so that he can take  time to go through his wife’s erotic zones until she reaches climax before he thinks about penetrative sex. Some of the zones are The skin- The entire skin of the woman’s body is very sensitive to gently and smooth touch. Please understand that what y...